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The Coffee Talk… – Be and Let Others Be!!!…..

I don’t mind anyone’s business, I mind only my own…!

What I do and how I do is only my problem, not anyone else’s…

I criticize only when I have something personal to mind someone and that I tell them personally…

If there is something I mind regarding Virily, it’s always (and usually) regarding Virily in general…

I did write a couple of articles about some personal conflicts, but I said A COUPLE………

If there is something I don’t like or consider it negative I simply skip it – I don’t write about that nor advise other people to avoid such posts… I can say my opinion but I NEVER advise or tell anyone what they should do.

I write what is interesting to me, for me and for the ones who are interested in that…

If someone disagrees with my writing no one told them they should agree…

I am always opened to new ideas and constructive and good-intentioned corrections…

If I or my posts are publicly criticized and provoked with negative intentions in posts – I react and defend myself, if I or my posts are publicly criticized with negative intentions in comments – I report! 

I don’t report until I am reported or treated badly, and I treat people the same way they treat me!

Be and let others be!

The Coffee Talk… – Judging by the Title and Negativity…

The Coffee Talk… – Just to Make It Clear…

The Coffee Talk… – the (Embedded Links) Misinformation and Misinterpretations…

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    Do you mind someone else’s business………?

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    Do you mind anyone else’s business………?

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    Do you mind other people’s business………?

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    • Of course, I think that is the best way to do and I do the same except on some rare occasions where I think I should express an opinion because it’s about something (the theme) that interests me but It’s never something that is not my business at all… I also don’t even read nor am interested in other people’s personal business, like I said I’m interested only if the theme is interesting to me as well.
      Same here, as much as possible of course, since there are some I consider negative but I just don’t pay attention to them…
      I do too except when I’m provoked or treated badly then I do react…

  1. Bit tired of people interfering with other peoples business, and generally avoid it.

    I am a see it do it person and quite frankly just get on with what has to be done..as long as what I do does no harm.

    Though if I do see things going on that can change to the better or that is harmful, I will put in my 10 cents worth and say something.
    A lot of bullying went on and goes on in work places and NZ schools and people look the other way, I won’t.

    • I am even not interested in anyone’s business… I am actually shocked people like and have so much time and patient reading other people’s comments or personal conflicts, or tracking what other people do and then constantly write or comment negatively about them…

      I have to say I am one of those who are occasionally noticing some irregularities here and writing about it too but I don’t think I am doing it that much and the way they do it – focusing on a member or a situation and then constantly writing about them negatively, calling them out or provoking them while not allowing them anything to say and defend themselves and then presenting it all like they are bullied for the reactions of the provoked ones to that while they are actually bullying…

      I do have my opinion about certain things

        • I think I forgot to finish the comment… “I do have my opinion about certain things but certainly don’t act the way some here do…!”

          The problem is here some people talk negatively publicly about certain people… Totally unnecessary too… If they mind something they can ask the admins about it and the admins are the ones who should solve things if there are some irregularities not users…

        • Glad you understand and agree… Indeed, same here, why would I criticize such things… I do criticize some other things when it comes to the site in general because no one contacts with us about the problems but I think this is something else…

          I am especially hurt because people who do it are the ones who blocked me and report my every comment on their article yet they write about me…! >:|

          • No need to do that, many people do that out of misunderstanding..

            I know I have in the past added up 2 and 2 and got 136 and often in life lack of communication causes more problems than anything else

        • I think so too… There is a problem when there is also no contact yet those people judge the observed behavior from their own perspective… Later when we criticize them they say “you don’t know me, you didn’t walk in my shoes”, and I’m like “do you know me………?!?!?!!”…

          Indeed…!!! I completely agree… That is why I often go angry because people don’t understand me, even when I’m doing things for them, yet they judge… :/|

          • Yes, as I thought happened to you. I have learned good communication is a magnificent advantage…

            On a lighter scale, I have benefited from Virily a lot by talking to different people here and its been a huge advantage

        • Thank you………!!! I feel like everyone thinks I am a bad person while I’m actually the opposite – I just don’t like human’s evil and to such things you have to act the same – unfortunatly, it doesn’t help either… :/(
          If communication helped in the first place there wouldn’t be conflicts… I agree it’s an advantage and it takes great skill for that…

          I know… I agree, but unfortunately, it seems like a neverending problem….. It only brings unnecessary stress and I am not a person for that, I like to stay independent while some people won’t let you…! :|(

        • Thank you, it means a lot, at least someone understands that I am misunderstood, hehehe… 😉 :))) I am nice as long as the other side is nice… I can also be wrong sometimes but I like to be corrected if I’m wrong… I probably interpret some things in the wrong way sometimes too but it’s because I’m often judged here so I’m constantly stressed…

          • That is why I’m trying to reduce my time here… It’s just not worth it and it’s not healthy at all… These places are not for me at all (never were) except for the creativity part…, and when that is not understood too what to say…..

    • I don’t care about anyone’s personal problems or conflicts, that is just not my business nor am interested in that – I’m not even noticing such things because it’s not my thing at all…!!!, but, unfortunately, some are and they are only making it worse by such behavior…

      But here I also talked about the things that cause conflicts, people who do what I here said I don’t do and provoke and bully users that way…

    • PS It needs time to learn some things… I am not quite a person for this… I don’t like conflicts at all yet when such things are done you have to defend yourself somehow… Especially if it lasts that long…

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