vidocka
At its core, kindness is a genuine concern for a fellow human being. Wishing him the best and realizing that this person has the same desires, needs, and aspirations that you have on your own. Kindness is warmth, flexibility, patience, confidentiality, loyalty, and gratitude.
Henry James wrote: “There are three important things in life. The first is to be kind, the second to be kind, and the third to be kind. ”
The important thing is that we are not friendly for the sake of self-interest or calculus.
That we do not hide our anger and frustration behind the mask of love and wear it just to look better in front of others. Also, the constant tendency to please others cannot be equated with kindness.
Let us also be kind to those who are not necessarily kind to us. In addition, let’s be kind to ourselves. We consider ourselves to be a person worthy of kindness.
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Are you trying to be friendly to all?
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Yes
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No
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I agree. We can’t really be friendly with everyone. We humans are too different. I understand the problem with viriles, when you can work, you will make up for it ?
There is so much truth in this post.
You are right. I really like to read sometimes a similar article.
I’ll just answer it simple, dear Vidocka …. I’m a nice person to nice people ….. I don’t try to be nice to arrogant people
That’s nice to hear. I think we are similar.
If I see anyone being too smart and arrogant, I prefer to leave him alone … but don’t think anywhere else with me
I also try to avoid such people.
That’s the smartest thing … why should I be unnecessarily upset?
Great post and wonderful and message!
Thank you, Milena. From time to time, we also have to read something nice.
Such a wonderful and inspiring message!
Thank you, Ellie. Occasionally, we need to read some positive thoughts.
what a beautiful post. I always try to honor all who approach.
Thank you. I also try to be kind to everyone.
sometimes it can be hard. Those that intend to harm are hard to be nice to!
Beautiful post. I like the quote.
Thank you. That quote is really wonderful.
Yes I think I am very friendly to all
I also try to be kind to everyone
I always try to be friendly and kind toward other people. I have met people who I just cannot be kind toward so I just avoid them.
I agree. We also meet people like that. I also avoid them.
There are some not worth my time and I won’t try to be nice to them.
We decide for ourselves which people we will be kind to by experience.
Yes and I am always nice to those that are nice to me. I try to avoid the spoilers and it seems to work for me. Thank you
What a wonderful kind and friendly post. Thank you for the positive vibes, as always my friend.
Thank you, Carol. Occasionally, in the light of all the events, I get the feeling that I have to say something positive.
I am a friendly person, but the way the world is today it is becoming harder and harder to not judge people harshly. The bad seems to outweigh the good.
You are absolutely right. I get the feeling that more and more people are “spoiled”
In a virtual world more are misunderstood than understood. It is folly to judge a person based on what they write.
I totally agree with you. I don’t want to condemn people until I know them.
Some are open and get into trouble but some hide their true self.