Over the years I have sometimes fallen out with people both online and offline. I tend to say what I think which has sometimes got me in hot water. However over time I usually calm down and realise I don’t want to be on bad terms with anyone and if the argument is not too serious I will try to heal the rift as I know I am not perfect and sometimes not without blame.
Holding a grudge is not good although it does depend on what two people fell out about. Today I am visiting a friend I fell out with several years ago. We have both mellowed since the falling out and have missed each other so hopefully everything that happened in the past will be forgotten and we can carry on with our friendship which I always valued despite our differences.
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Question of
Will you forgive and forget after a disagreement
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Yes
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No
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Question of
Will you forgive and forget after a disagreement
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Yes
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No
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Sometimes
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Often that is hard but is better for you that you do…
i just have one rule. I forgive the first time no issue. I will forgive a second time, but if the person does it a 3rd time, I stop forgetting!
Forgiveness and forgetting are true and important principles even though not everyone is able to carry them out. But you can, and that’s great!
I totally agree with you. I don’t like strife and resentment. If possible, I try to forget or dismiss many things.
I like the saying that forgiveness is for yourself, not the other person. It’s good for our own health to let go of bad feelings.
No matter how difficult, we have to forgive and move on. Sometimes we cannot forget.
No one is perfect, dear Linda … I am not a conflicted person and I like to have good relations with everyone … if I am not too hurt I also forgive when someone once resents me is all over
In fact the best revenge is to forgive some one ,
I think you’re right.
I hate holding grudges because it makes it difficult for me to live with myself. I am always the first to try and make up or if the person is too toxic keep away from them. I prefer to say nothing if I don’t have anything good to say to anyone.
Me too. I hate being on bad terms with people.