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If contagious with the flu it’s obvious that as a courtesy to others we should spend a holiday alone, but most people spend holidays with others, either family or friends, and due to unexpected circumstances, sometimes they are spent with strangers. Choosing to spend a holiday alone is not what most people do, but have you ever considered the possibilities?
If a person chooses to take a break from holiday hubbub they can choose from many alternatives. Spending isolated restful time is something many actually need and benefit from at times. Quiet contemplation of the meaning of the holiday, recuperating rest, and setting oneself aside just to reassess life goals are important. As well, a person can choose to step outside their normal holiday experience and do something different. Sacrificing the time to a worthy cause such as serving meals to homeless families or choosing to take the time to get to know people who are just acquaintances are examples of doing something alone in crowd.
If you want to know more about options for spending holidays solo check out Why Spend Holidays Alone? You can also join this poll and let us know if you would sometimes like to spend a holiday alone. If you don’t mind, let us know more about your choice in the comments below.
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Would You Spend a Holiday Alone by Choice?
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Yes
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No
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Which of the following would make you want to spend a holiday alone?
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A need for peace and quiet.
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To avoid unhealthy activities.
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Before reading this post had you ever considered spending a holiday alone?
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Yes
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No
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On a holiday would you choose to volunteer to help others without family and friends along?
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Yes
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No
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A wonderful test. Happy Holidays.
Thanks kindly! The best to you and yours at Christmas time and in the New Year.
Wish you wonderful winter holidays!!!
Thank you! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours!
Holidays can be hard for any people for different reasons. I try to enjoy them with my family and friends even though some family members have died. I think to myself, to enjoy the ones that are left for me to treasure, and have a great holiday.
That is an excellent perspective. Not everyone can be with loved ones though. It’s good to be able to consider several options. Thanks much for adding your feedback here.
You are welcome, and thank you for responding here with some of your experience.
The holidays are not a good time for me. Too many lost loved ones.
But I try to make the best of it.
We also have your experience. Holiday seasons certainly can be tough. That is one reason I wrote the article linked in the opening to the poll. Focusing on the heart of the upcoming season is huge, whether we meet with others or have a quiet time at home.
Sorry you understand. Your words really struck a nerve with me.
Thank you for the post and your inspiration.