The situation around me lately has made me constantly pay attention to everything around, nature or people, with various behaviors and feelings that result from it. All of that has triggered a question, which more has I done so far, to give or take? Entertain or hurting? Help or ignore?
By logic, it would be hard to calculate it all. Moreover, often what we intend to help or support can actually be detrimental or deemed so. Sometimes, when we intend to entertain others, people are offended, and so on, and vice versa, the things we do consciously or not to others that we mean to hurt, drop, or harm other people even actually make others become stronger, independent, steadfast, wise, and so on.
In the end, only wisdom can show us the real kindness of everything. Seems, It is the door to go upstairs to reality above it, higher awareness; true selves who are non-self, who are aware that there is no separation between self and others, and all are interconnected, which will lead us to an essential understanding of life, after we realize that we are no longer trapped in the idea that we are entities separated. The consciousness that flows peace and bliss from the source, which neutralizes the initial question above.
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Have you ever counted or compared the positive and negative actions we have done to other people or nature?
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Yes
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No
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Users voted 9 times.
Q: Have you ever counted or compared the positive and negative actions we have done to other people or nature?
Yes (5 votes) – 56%
No (4 votes) – 44%
I would like to believe that things happen the way they are supposed to happen. No accident.
You would like? Does that mean not believing?
It means that I am leaning to believing despite the fact that such idea is not backed by science ?
I think I’m lucky to be talking to someone who is not a scientist…
I always want to think the best of people and hopefully be myself while doing my best. Some and very few won’t ever be happy with what I give but have to leave it.
Yes I some way I Agee with you as humans we are all inter connected
Even your intentions and desires are very valuable, apart from people who are not happy with what you give.
Thank you that you agree with my perspective.
I’m not a great specialist in this regard. I always make a wrong judgment. I think everyone is good but then it turns out different.
I believe that this world is valuable because of the differences and lessons that are given to us, whether good or bad.
Indeed, It is rather difficult to write something when we are not sure about something, especially here with a limit of 20 characters… lol
Thank you so much, my friend.
I do not know what to say … I do not think I have ever compared positive and negative actions
Maybe it’s just my naughty mind that always disturbs everything, dear friend.
I do not mind anything, dear Albert … I just do not think as much as you do about things that are not important for me … I do not even burden myself with negative actions
That’s a light and pleasant life, dear friend. maybe the only difference is what is important or not important to us.
And of course, we don’t burden ourselves with negative actions.
This is most important, dear friend…
Sometimes … it’s the receiver …
We have this saying in Chinese, “the speaker doesn’t have that intention (to hurt), yet the listener have (feels) that intention” …
I think we cannot change how others want to think …
but we can learn to be more sensitive …
That’s why I always see this formula in everything; 2×2… There are always two sides to one side… and sincerity and wisdom are the most important keys to doing everything
Looking beyond ourselves is the hardest thing any of us have to do. I know, early on as a parent, I struggled always putting my kids first. I did it, but it wasn’t always natural. I was taught to pursue my career and provide for my family.
That balance took me a few years to establish.
I agree with your opinion, and it seems that that is the picture of people in general, and will continue to apply to some people but can be different from others. Like you too.
It is interesting. As always your question left me thinking. I suspect we are bound to the path we choose. The question for all of us, are we willing to break the binding?
I even add to your question, can we break the binding?
Ah, now we are moving further into a discussion of the power within, versus the things the bind us. Sometimes it is family that binds us, and that binding can be broken but should it?
Sometimes it is a circumstance that binds us, often we spend far too much time trying to accept that binding, instead of breaking it.
I think, what we do in the path to reach heights, and maybe even peaks, are to realize and respond wisely to the combination of our fears, desires, and attachments. It is a reality that at least we are bound by hunger, clothing, responsibility, etc. but at a certain height, we will be able to identify ourselves as a soul and no longer with various outward attributes.
I read a great article once, I don’t remember where I will have to find it. The author said “The measure of a person is not how high a person climbs. Nor is it how far a person falls. It is when things are hard how high they lift others.”
In a way, I understand the meaning of the article, but I think the context is somewhat different considering the height that I meant earlier is the level of spiritual awareness, and that level determines the ability and sincerity of someone to lift others.
My personal belief is that we cannot rise spiritually until we are willing to help others.
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There is absolutely no problem with what you believe because we can know where the “willingness to help” comes from.
truly, the essence of who we are, matters!
We have to follow our gut instinct and it usually will guide us to do and say the right thing, at the right time.
I see the truth in your opinion, carol.
I forgot to add that I really like your photo here.
Hahaha… Looks like praising is an important part of commenting for us here…
I always do what I think right at the moment and regardless of the consequences or what somebody will say.
I agree with your thoughts, dear friend. Maybe it’s just my thoughts that are often naughty and curious about many things, often captious to ask lots of questions.