Ghostwriter
So as you may know, nothing went as planned the way I envisioned things with the doctors. I would have never imagined that I would walk home (but I got my steps in). I am tired of having to growl to make people understand what the boundaries are. They really don’t understand and it’s not their fault.
So I am once again considering having full time help moving into this home and me moving into an apartment. Yes, I love my family and want to be with them. It’s not working. I cannot make it work. So maybe if I choose to live and work somewhere else and come to visit and of course finish what doesn’t get done, we all might be happier and healthier.
I presented the plan today and they growled at me, just like I had growled after walking home. I know something has to change. I am just not certain if this plan is the best I have to offer.
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Question of
Do you ever feel overwhelmed when making decisions that involve others?
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Yes
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No
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Have you ever lived with a loved one who has alzhiemers?
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Yes
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No
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Have you ever lived with a loved one who has lupus?
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Yes
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No
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Have you ever wanted to run away, but your legs are too tired to move?
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Yes
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No
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Please, don’t feel guilty. This change will make you feel better, and you need that as much as your family does. They don’t understand, but hopefully they will. A ‘happier you’ would be more beneficial to them, as you’d both enjoy a calmer environment. You won’t be selfish if you decide to change, but I think you already know this. ?
Sometimes it is very difficult to make people understand. But I hope everyone works out for you in the end. God bless. x