I get where you are coming from
Short Story made long. Joined site. 1 Took over 24 hours to be published. If submitted on Thurs. evening, not published until Monday. If it had been moderated a few errors would have been noted and I could have corrected them. 2 Noted many errors...
I'm speaking from what I see, experienced.
Yes, and seeing how Daddy treats Mommy, how any of the younger siblings act and the response they get gives you a glimpse into the background of your intended.
There is a genetic component which one can't outgrow or change.