That moment when you feel life the air has been sucked out of your body and you no longer what to breathe because of the loss you just experienced.
The day when you heard something that made your knees buckle and you had to grab something or just fall to the ground because of the shock, how could they have done that?
That moment you prayed after you just got the hell beat out of you by the person you love for no reason at all and you lay and ask for death, so you will no longer have to endure the beatings, the pain.
When you had it all and in an instant it was all taken away and you are left homeless and broken. Not knowing what to do or where to go.
Yes all of the above has happened to me and yes I have gotten up and moved on. Its never easy but its something we have to do.
Learn from the past and do not repeat, do not settle anymore.
We cannot stay in the past, we have to let our disappointments go and look forward to life and we most certainly learned to make better choices. If we stay and dwell we will become depressed and suffer even more, letting all of those evil people win.
When I hear people say “thats to good for me or I am not good enough for that life” it makes me sad. We can be whatever we chose to be, you just have to go for it and not allow others poison words to get into our heads, to rule us.
I am not an expert but I have lived life and some of it was bad, very bad.
How? How can we get out of this rut of nothingness?
You have to think before you act. The old saying birds of a feather flock together is correct, so you want to be wealthy? Gather with people of means and learn from them. You want to dress better and wear makeup and look different? Then you befriend the people you admire and ask them to show you how they do it. You will never learn of you do not try and it never hurts to ask for help.
I have learned that the one statement that puts people off is “I don`t have the money to do that,” Maybe they do not want to feel the pressure of making you feel like less because they have the money or maybe they feel like you just want to be around them for the money but this is something you never need to talk about. Do not allow everyone to know your finances.
As for me, I do ask God to guide me, to show me the way, to put the right people in my path to push me to all that I know I can be.
As for the people who did me wrong God is showing me how they are suffering in real life for the wrong they have did to me and to mankind.
By Andria Perry Photo By Andria Perry