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There are no winners in an argument if a problem that caused it persist. I stressed so many times to my friend why I opposed to some ideas and that I have no plans to change my views, but for some clueless reason the same person insist that I have to adapt to his viewpoints because they are somehow better than mine.
First of all, this is a kind of an insult, because clearly an opinion and a personal taste should be excluded from any debate that calls for the quality analyses.
The thing that is clearly better for him, can’t or is not so well for me, and I don’t feel the need to explain why or to unload the mountain of the facts to back up my personal taste. It is not a scientific debate, we don’t need to make it an issue. No! It has to be blue because red is not acceptable. How fly!
Well, in a stiff situation like this, the best thing to do is just to walk away because you don’t really need to win an every debate. You don’t need to prove anything because this sort of the things is not your problem and you are not missing anything if you chose not to debate over it.
Well actually they say the strongest person isn’t the one who can win a fight with his fists, but someone who can walk away
That is a great point.
Reminds me of a wonderful quote, ‘Arguments always begin with an answer in mind. Conversations begin with a question.’
That is a wonderful quote, I can’t agree more.
A person entering an argument doesn’t want to debate, just to get into a verbal broil over basically anything.
Great words!
Good point
Yes, life is a journey and if there is a conflict of opinions no one wins, best to walk away
Conflict of opinions is the worst kind of the conflicts.
I agree that arguing over things is pointless! It’s an opinion not a fact!
You should see gossip sites,it is entertaining beyond believable. LOL
You should see gossip sites,it is entertaining beyond believable.
There is another rule in life. You may not be a winner, but it is important to take your head with a dignified head.
Absolutely true, no need to take remarks from a random people who just want to ruin your day.
An inspirational post! Humans live together with a number of paradigms, which live in the subconscious or conscious realm, which becomes the compass of faith to the smallest behavior. Some became the center of wisdom, others became the center of narrow-mindedness. Which one is more dominant?
Narrow-wisdom, the ones with the brains used in a limited way. hehe
Yep!
I like the ironic approach you have adopted here! Of course nobody will get anywhere if they are never prepared to give way and accept that another view could be just as valid as their own.
I don’t even discuss with those people, it takes too much energy and time.
No.