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A Certain Age

When my mother was older I remember her saying that her hands did not grip as well as they did when she was younger. Whilst my mother was a very capable person, I did not disbelieve her but the concept was not so easily understood.

However, now I am a lady of ‘a certain age’ I realise exactly what she meant. If I buy a small bottle of mineral water in a café where it is self-service, I often find that I have to ask the counter-staff to open the top for me.

Over the years I have had hobbies doing crafts and dressmaking and so far still make some clothes although threading the needle on the sewing machine is more of a test than hitherto.

My most recent example of ‘can do’ – or maybe not – I ordered new foam filler for two cushions on a Chesterfield sofa. No problem. All you do is pull out the existing filler and insert the new firm filler. Nothing exceptional about that action; however, I started and unzipped the cover and started to pull out the original filler. I pushed the cover down, I pulled the filler up – still determined I continued until eventually success, the old filler was removed.

Therefore, I thought just insert new filler and job done! Well after further pushing and realigning of new filler to get it square to the box piping I finally had to admit defeat. I was tired, my heart rate had increased and my energy level decreased. I hate being beaten, but had to admit that although the filler was nearly in two or three inches of foam showing at the edge was not the desired look.

I knew that at the weekend I would see my son so I duly arrived complete with leather cushion and protruding foam to say ‘help’.

Between my son and daughter-in-law they removed the foam repositioned it with the additional padding and together completed the task in about fifteen minutes.

There is a second cushion to be done so I was instructed not to bother to try but take it over and they would do that one.

I was delighted and pleased for the help but still annoyed with myself that I just couldn’t finish on my own.

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