Make no decisions until you have fully analysed the adultery.
Do NOT blame yourself.
The biggest mistake you make is in thinking ‘if’ you did or said or was…. NO.
Adultery takes preparation, organisation, management, decision.
Think of it like this;
You want to smoke a cigarette. You have to get a cigarette. You have to get a light for your cigarette.
You go to the supermarket. You see the various brands. You select one. You pay for it. You buy a lighter. You carry it home. You go to your room. You open the pack, you select a cigarette, you put it into your mouth, you light it. You take a drag.
These are steps you take if you want to smoke a cigarette.
Now, if you want to commit adultery?