The phone rings, you answer.”Hi,” Says the EX.
“Oh Hi! Great to hear from YOU!” (Ex doesn’t expect this).
“Um I just called to see how you are.”
“Oh I’m fabulous! My roses just won first prize! I was so surprised I thought…(blah blah blah)”
This is not what the EX is expecting.
As you Gush be bathed in happiness.
Then, if in any way shape or form there is some hint of attitude coming from EX; you’ve got to run.
By controlling that first encounter, be it face to face or phone, you will feel in control.