Don’t take his adultery as a slap down.
Men who have betrayed beauty queens, lawyers, fantastic women for the most common and unattractive.
When a man is going to commit adultery it is, in Jamaican parlance; “first water wash.”
This means any gal who will lie down is accepted. When men go to cheat, it is cheating to cheat.
In 99% of the cases this is not the man who falls in love with the fabulous woman who resists; this is, again in Jamaican parlance, ‘a hen looking for a place to lay’.
Never compare yourself, never think that the woman is in any way better than you; she is just available.
Unless your husband never said he was married and has tricked her, she knew before she smiled, he was married, and proceeded because of it.