It often seems peculiar, if one analyses affairs, that as long as the man is married, or the Outside Gal believes he is married, she wants him.
When the wife dumps him, or the Gal finds our he is no longer married, the Outside Gal doesn’t want him anymore.
After all, he’s a man who has proven himself unfaithful. If he cheated on Wife 1 he will cheat on Wife 2.
If the Outside Gal learns or thinks that Wife is having an affair, her ego is shattered. She has virtually stolen someone’s garbage.
This little trick can be used by wives who want Slutina to terminate the affair.