When Sandy was able to fully explore her relationship with Nick, certain realities exploded and she realised how she had gotten herself into the situation and exactly what it was.
Sandy was able to perceive the How.
Nick had run into her life making her feel the most wonderful woman that ever lived. He seemed to love her so much that she felt guilty.
She explored the meeting, the words, how she was ‘swept off her feet’.
Sandy realised the entrance of Nick into her life was choreographed. That he set it up so as to jump the relationship from Hello to I Do within record time.
To realise that the meeting, the conversation, the actions were all staged, opened her eyes to what followed.