When Sandy escaped her abusive husband Nick, she knew she had to analyse the relationship so as to understand what happened.
It took time, it was painful, there were many snags, but finally she was able to view it as if it were a stone she was examining.
She realised he had burst into her life to keep her off guard, unable to see what was coming next.
His expressed loved and desire for her, a woman he had just met, should have caused her to step back not think that ‘her prince has come.’
Sandy grasped everything had been staged. His behaviour was designed to make her feel that tad of guilt for not loving him as much as he loved her.