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One of the reasons that I love Virily is that is challenges me to learn new things.Someone mentioned that they used to be a “people pleaser”.(This post in no way reflects on that person – what that person deemed people pleasing may be very different. It was just the comment that spurred me to research.) 

Although I have heard the term many times I had never taken the time to do a little research and see what it is truly all about.  There is a lot of information out there on this subject and much of it I had wrong. So I learned a lot and that is always a good thing.

Some of the key characteristics listed as things that are common among people pleasers’ are

~ Easily disappointed (takes any criticism to heart)

~ Eager to help others

~ Have a hard time saying no to anyone in need

~ Often display a fear of abandon

~ Doesn’t often make independent decisions

~ Uses good deeds and helping others to try and improve their self esteem

Anything in an extreme can turn into a problem. If these traits are taking up all of your time and your goals are set aside constantly because you are helping others, you may want to seek balance. 

What do you think?

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